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You never married and are tired of people asking you why not?
Or maybe they have long stopped asking because they totally understand you are “DIFFICULT.”
Now they too mimic your sentiment:
“Who would want me?”
"I’m set in my ways."
"I don’t need anyone but would like the companionship."
"I’m better off alone."
"I haven't met THE One."
"Everyone's spouse is a Dick anyway."
"He/She got away."
The holidays are especially cumbersome.
Being alone.
A glaring reminder that you are NOT loved.
Not good enough.
Not acceptably pretty or fit or something.
That he/she is seeking.
So what can we do about this feeling, these sensations of longing to be coupled?
Nada.
We just have to get over it.
To live in the promise that we are enough.
Be satisfied for all of those people we touch in our lives. The ones we send cards to, call frequently, support, assist, befriend, laugh with, make food for, go to the movies, drink too much, share desserts, help move.
Be with people, animals and nature. Volunteer. Share yourself. Create jewelry, bake bread, repurpose your stuff (call Sorted Affairs!!) and live freely.
Knowing that you are only alone if you believe that.
Reach out to a friend.
Be with others who are ailing.
And step aside from the futility of "I am alone.”
‘Cause you don’t have to be. It's a perception. And does you no good.
Share this post, if you care about someone who is not partnered.
Of course you do!