#Judgment is a constant. It’s real. As real as we know it to be. And our Truth, unless we allow the uncertainty to slip in. When someone walks in the door, I have an instant idea of who they are, what they believe, how they live, when they’re happy, why they do what they do, where they begin a sentence. Ha!
It’s actually human nature. If we take the time to pause, to see the judgment, to turn it around, wring it out, and start from scratch. We’ll come so much farther to getting to know THEM.
And ourselves. Especially our Selves.
I started to play the game “I Don’t Have a Clue Who They Are.” Even if I’ve known that person for a few weeks, months, decades, I declare I DON’T know them.
Understanding I, myself, have made some huge shifts in my beliefs, likes, dreams, mannerisms, stance, foods even. Why wouldn’t THEY have similarly changed their life?
Of course!
Yet, I’ve been holding their face to the flame, melting them into the mold of who I decided they are. Or were, as the case may be.
Play the "I Don’t Have a Clue Game."
See where it takes you, guides you, forces you to open your mind, secure a new and exciting handle.
Perhaps you can even draw a card on your Self. Decide you don’t know who you are and create the excitement around the new person comin' down the track. You don’t know who it is, what they looks or feel like, the outcome of their life is unclear, and the details are wobbly.
Let me know how this goes, after 30 days.
It takes time to notice. Keep to the grindstone. Play with a full heart and no rules. 'Cause whatever parameters you make up just get in the way of creativity.