Do the unmentionable, break up the party, ruin their day, wreak havoc, caution to the wind, and all that. Break free of what you think is your MO.
It’s really not worth having, being, doing - anything, not one single thing - of what you don’t want to have, be or do.
Did I say that?
Than I have to fly like the wind as well, do the unpopular things, broach subjects that make people want to puke with fear. Be available. Wear a safety pin, a Planned Parenthood button, a pink hat, a brave face.
I can’t expect my clients to deal with their shit if I’m not willing or able to cope with my own.
When the time comes to do the hard stuff make sure you are hydrated, well-rested, secure, and nourished. Mingle with the past, break free of the core issues that made you who you are and in taking them apart, gets you scared, afraid that you won’t consequently BE who you say you are.
It’s a risk. It is worth taking. Because without that process, things will remain exactly where they are,
and have been for far too long.
The challenge is doing it solo. By your Self. Alone.
Do don’t do that.
Call in the troops. Be with the very people who laugh at your jokes, who “get you,” the folks who stand by your side and then kick you in the rear when you need it. They also take chances, wiggle their way into the fray. Bray their convictions. And straddle love and friendship with concrete action.
They can help. And you, in turn, help them.
Who won’t sign up for the Win-Win?
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